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How To Host A French Apéro

How To Host A French Apéro

Sundays are one of my favorite days of the week. It’s a day to relax and unwind and a perfect day to host a French Apéro with friends. Today, I will tell you how to host a French apéro at home and share a few recipes from one of my favorite French chefs and friend, Véronique, from Cuisine Elegante.

Lady pouring glass of wine.

What Is A French Apéro

An apéro, which originates from the French word aperitif, is part of the French joie de vivre, or the joy of living. The French tradition entails a pre-meal gathering of friends incorporating tasteful appetizers, drinks, and conversation. Typically, it’s done before dinner, but you can also do it before lunch.

My favorite thing about an apéro is that it can be done anytime. I love to do an apéro spontaneously, especially on Sunday afternoons. All you have to do is invite a few friends over, set up some small appetizers; no heavy cooking needs to be done for an apéro, turn on a French playlist, pour some wine, and enjoy the conversation.

The French have perfected the art of living, spending meaningful time with friends, and enjoying life’s simple moments, and an apéro is all part of that.

How To Set Up a French Apéro

It doesn’t take much to set up an apéro. Your favorite dishes, wine or champagne glasses, a few candles, and some fresh flowers are all you need. The French believe in using their best personal items daily, including dishware and utensils. Don’t use paper plates or napkins; set up a beautiful environment that everyone will enjoy.

I love to use my gorgeous yet simple platters like this one from Elsie Green or this one. Then I will add little bowls like these, appetizers plates, and vintage glassware and utensils.

You can easily buy flowers from your local grocery store, Trader Joe’s, or a local florist. They don’t have to be fancy, just a simple bunch of flowers in cute glass vases on the table.

I also like incorporating cloth napkins, like striped or navy ones. You can also add a favorite tablecloth, and then, if you have a few candles, add those to the table.

Remember, the key to hosting a French apéro is enjoying time and conversation with friends, so you don’t need to make it a formal presentation.

Favorite Apéro Essentials

What Kind Of Food To Serve

Remember that simple is better when it comes to what kind of food to serve at your apéro. You aren’t meant to spend hours in the kitchen preparing food; just gather what you have. Even something as simple as nuts and crackers will do the job.

The overall function of an apéro is to wet the appetite before the main meal, so don’t go overboard when preparing the menu.

Here are some ideas on what to serve:

  • Charcuterie Board – Put out a selection of meats, nuts, and olives.
  • Fresh Crudité– Serve a platter of fresh or marinated vegetables with a tapenade or hummus.
  • Selection of Cheeses– You can put out a few favorite cheeses. Typically, cheese is not served at a traditional French apéro because the French eat cheese before dessert.
  • Baguette and Butter– If you’re lucky to have a fresh baguette from your local boulangerie, that’s the best, but if not, any baguette will do.
  • Whatever Is In Your Panty– Head to your pantry and see what you have on hand. I always try to keep a jar of olives, some crackers, a package of nuts, and one type of cheese, so I am always prepared for apéro.
Tablescape showing what to serve at a french apero with wine, asparagus, veggies.

Drinks To Serve At An Apéro

Like the food, the drinks you serve at an apéro are meant to be simple and enjoyable, but remember to put out your beautiful glassware.

  • Wine or Champagne– Champagne will always be my preferred drink, but if not, I like to serve a crisp white, like a Sancerre, or a cold Rosé.
  • Apértif -Some classic French drinks include Lillet, Pastis, or a Kir Royale, a French cocktail made with crème de cassis (a blackcurrant liqueur) topped with white wine. These aren’t my favorites, but they are loved by the French.
  • Nonalcoholic Option—Make sure to have a nonalcoholic option, such as sparking water, lemonade, or other juices.

Apéro Recipes

Here are two recipes from Véronique of Cuisine Elegante, perfect for your next apéro. Véronique is a French Chef who hosts private cooking classes and market tours in Paris. I met Véronique after attending one of her cooking classes in December and then with Nathan and London this summer.

I made both recipes for our French apéro, Artichoke Tapenade, served with crackers or crostini. And oven-roasted Asparagus with Vinagarette.

Vinaigrette For Green Asparagus

5 from 1 vote
Course Side Dish

Ingredients
  

  • 2 tbsp lemon
  • 6 tbsp olive oil
  • 1-2 pinch salt
  • 1 pinch pepper
  • 1 small ripe tomato peeled and diced
  • Some fresh seasonal herbs (chive, parsley, tarragon)
  • 1 shallot finally diced – shallot can be replaced by a red onion
  • 1 hard boil egg

Instructions
 

  • prepare all your ingredients in separate bowls
  • In a mixing bowl, add the salt, the pepper and lemon first, stir and add the oil, then the
    egg yolk, the egg white, the shallot, the tomato, and the herbs to finish.
    Remember to cut equally and finely the egg white, the tomato, and the shallots!
  • Pour this vinaigrette above the asparagus just before serving.

Notes

The lemon juice can be replaced by a vinegar of your choice but not balsamic for this
recipe.
This sauce is from one of my favorite chefs, Guy Martin, chef of the famous restaurant
LE GRAND VEFOUR located in Palais Royal. Actually, in his original recipe, he uses lemongrass instead of shallots.

Artichoke Tapenade

Véronique Bawol
5 from 1 vote
Course Appetizer

Ingredients
  

  • 1 cup small artichokes heart
  • 3 or 4 anchovies marinated in olive oil
  • 1 garlic clove
  • 1 tsp capers
  • 1 tsp lemon juice
  • 3 tbsp olive oil
  • black pepper and salt

Instructions
 

  • In a mixing bowl, add the garlic clove, the anchovies, the capers, the
    black pepper, the salt and the lemon juice.
  • Mix with your hand blender
    until the texture is smooth adding the olive oil progressively.

Notes

Tapenade is such a classic in Provence, served with a glass of rosé! You
can keep it up to 4 days in your refrigerator. Make it ahead. It’s a super
quick and easy and freeze beautifully.
You can add a few leaves of fresh basil in this recipe it’s a good match
with artichokes.

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5 Comments

  1. 5 stars
    As a personal chef, I am lucky to have plenty of moments to “cook French”, so I truly appreciat these links to further recipes and ideas. (I did immediately order the “A Table”!)
    Noey, you have seen and learned so much during your French travels. I am currently planning a trip to Paris with a daughter and a few close friends. Your site gives me new areas to check out and lots of sweet dreams.
    Thank you.
    -Chef Diane

    1. Bonjour Chef Diane,
      Oh I love that you’re a personal chef, and you will truly love these recipes that Véronique provided. Have a wonderful time on your trip. I am genuinely so grateful for everything I have learned and discovered about the beautiful country of France over the years. Enjoy!
      Have a great day,
      Noelani

  2. You’re very welcome! I have a whole bunch of books on French style – once my kids were a little older I started to look into it properly (they are in their late 20s now). I did some French in school, and we were lucky enough to have French neighbours when we lived for 4 years in Budapest in the mid-2000s, so I saw the lifestyle in real time! For a while my motto was: What Would Nathalie Do? :0) Patricia

  3. Hi Noelani, this was a lovely post, thank you.
    I’ve noticed that sometimes you ask readers to alert you of any books etc. on the French theme. Have you read Robert Arbor’s ‘Joie de Vivre: Simple French Style for Everyday Living’? I think it would be right up your alley, or ruelle! ;0) He owns a bistro in New York City and he talks about family life using the framework of daily meals. My copy is dated 2003 but I’m sure there have been reprints. I also have Fréderic Fekkai’s A Year of Style – it’s from 2000, but I don’t think it has dated too much. I read through it now and again – he talks about growing up in Provence and what he learned from observing the women in his life.
    Keep up the good work with the blog, I really enjoy reading it!
    P.S. I’ve just thought of another couple of books! Forever Chic by Tish Jett, and the follow up, Living Forever Chic. She is an American fashion journalist who has lived in France for probably about 30 years.

    1. Hi Patricia,
      Oh, thank you for letting me know about this book, I’ve never heard about it but will definitely put into my rotation. I have the other two books as well, so thank you!
      Thank you for reading and all the great info. Have a lovely day,
      Noelani

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